Commentary: Advance directives let patients keep control
By Marianna Capone
Daily Progress – Consider this typical scenario because it can happen to any of us. A 76-year-old woman comes to a local emergency department by ambulance. She is unconscious, struggling to breathe. While the emergency department team works to understand and treat her condition, a question remains unanswered. “What treatment would she want if she could tell us?” Read more…
Advance Directives for Family Members
Dr. Timothy Short, Chief Medical Officer and Director of the Education Institute at Hospice of the Piedmont and CVADC member discusses the importance of advance directives for oneself and family members. Watch the video below to learn more!
Advance Directive Information for Healthcare Professionals
Dr. Timothy Short, Chief Medical Office and Director of the Education Institute at Hospice of the Piedmont and CVADC member discusses what the science says about advance care planning for healthcare professionals. Watch the video below to learn more!
By: Tammy James
Daily Progress – After enduring the pandemic over the past two years, we can probably agree that life is unpredictable and precious. As a hospital chaplain providing care for people facing challenging health conditions, I have witnessed the importance of people having an Advance Care Plan/Advance Directive/Living Will in place. No matter one’s age, this document ensures that the care team knows who the unconscious patient trusts to make decisions on their behalf. Read more…
By Dr. Samuel D. Caughron, MD – Charlottesville Wellness Center Family Practice MDVIP
Sometimes you just hit the right thing at the right time. My focus in medicine has been to help people reach their goals. X was a wonderful 82-year-old male with multiple medical problems that I followed regularly. He lived with his son and daughter-in-law who were attentive to his needs. He came into my office with his daughter for his yearly exam. Although we had attempted to address his advance directive before, he deferred by stating, “Whatever my family wants.” This time, with his daughter in the office, he was willing to address the big issues and indicated his son as his decision maker, and, after discussion, marked his desires on the form from Sentara Martha Jefferson hospital. This was witnessed by his daughter and a member of my office staff. Little did we know how quickly we would need to put this into practice. We entered his directive into the US Living Will Registry and sent a copy to Sentara Martha Jefferson.
Four days later, he began to have a fever and cough and a temperature of 101. He was taken to the emergency room at Sentara Martha Jefferson where he was admitted with a positive COVID test. Over the next month, he gradually deteriorated, eventually requiring a respirator and died a month after admission. During the final stages of his illness, his advance directive was used to deal with multiple family members since it clearly indicated who was responsible for making his decisions and how aggressive he wanted his medical care to be.
In the best of circumstances these issues are difficult. What a blessing for him and his family that we were able to do this in such a timely manner. I am always amazed at how often seemingly random timing occurs. Like him, not everyone I see will complete the Advance Medical Directive during a visit, often wanting to put it off “a little longer,” but just a little bit of attention during that visit allowed this gentleman and his daughter to “seize the day” and make it happen.
Although everyone was sad that he died, they were consoled that his wishes were honored. We should all be so lucky.
NextAvenue.org – Lisa Cassaro and her husband were in their 40s, living in Orcutt, Calif., when they learned about advance care planning in the most difficult way possible. Jeff Cassaro had no apparent health issues when he suddenly broke his arm one day while unplugging a fan. Doctors diagnosed him with Stage 4 kidney cancer. He died 18 months later at the age of 49.
Even though both had children from a previous marriage, the Cassaros had not prepared their wills, never chosen a health care proxy (someone you choose to make health care decisions for you when you can’t do it) and never filled out an advance directive, a legal document explaining how you want medical decisions to be made if you can’t make them yourself. Read more…
Check out A Graceful Life podcast for a 2-part series on advance directives.
Part 1: Dr. Sam Caughron shares how he approaches the subject of advance care planning with patients and why it is so important.
Part 2: Marianne Capone, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, discusses the importance of having an advance directive.
By Marianne Capone, 04/14/2021
It was Mother’s Day 2005, a beautiful spring day with a high blue sky. Our family had gathered in Charlottesville for the weekend, and we had a restaurant reservation for dinner that evening. I remember that my dad and mom, ages 82 and 81 respectively, went for a walk around the neighborhood before dinner. They held hands. Dinner was wonderful. Three hours later we were in the Emergency Room at UVA Medical Center, and my mother was inches from death.
Even at 81, my mother was still working, almost full time. She still got her hair done every other Saturday and a manicure on alternating Wednesdays. When she got dressed for church on Sundays, she still wore three-inch heels. She’d had diabetes for many years, and it had damaged her vision. A few times a year, she would get a urinary tract infection (UTI). But she was still an active and independent person. What we didn’t know that beautiful day was that she had one of those UTIs. Apparently without symptoms; it was raging through her body. Back home after dinner, she went from feeling slightly unwell to unconsciousness. It took minutes. A few more minutes, and she was in the Emergency Department. When they told us to leave her bedside, she was surrounded by machines. Every one of them had an alarm, and every alarm seemed to be screaming. My mother was crashing.
One of the doctors came to us in the waiting area and said Mom was having trouble breathing on her own. The doctor asked if she would want to be intubated. We had no idea. Did we want them to intubate her? They needed an answer. We sat frozen.
As a social worker, I had an understanding of the question in front of us. If we said no, then that person who had been talking and laughing with us just a short time ago, would likely die. If we said yes, she might survive, but perhaps not as the woman we knew. She might have permanent damage to her brain, or kidneys, or other organs. We might be condemning her to a life of dependency and limitations. Would she want that? Would she forgive us for that?
My father, brother, and I agreed in that moment that she should be intubated, and the doctors proceeded. We were very lucky. Mom survived, and she lived another five years. Within a month, her thought processes were clearly confused. It was the start of Alzheimer’s disease. She had a couple of years of generally pleasant confusion, a couple of years of difficulty mixed with some fear, and then one horrible last year.
But I still remember that time in 2005, sitting in the ICU room, and waiting for her to open her eyes. Eyes of recognition? Eyes of sadness and reproach? I would not wish that kind of vigil on anyone.
But our family learned from that experience. By the time that last year came for my mom, we had taken the time to think through how we would make the important decisions. And three years after that, when my father died, we were prepared for him too. It has been a great blessing for all of us to be prepared.
April 16th is National Healthcare Decisions Day; may it inspire you to start the conversation about advance care planning with your loved ones. To help you get started, the CVADC is offering FREE Zoom workshops on April 20th and April 22nd in collaboration with the Haney Conference and Honoring Choices Virginia. To register, visit honoringchoices-va.org/learn/events.
The Conversation Project – Death looms larger than usual during a global pandemic. An age-friendly community works to make sure people are connected, healthy and active throughout their lives, but it doesn’t pay as much attention to the end of life.
What might a death-friendly community ensure?
In today’s context, the suggestion to become friendly with death may sound strange. But as scholars doing research on age-friendly communities, we wonder what it would mean for a community to be friendly towards death, dying, grief and bereavement. Read more…
To recognize National Healthcare Decisions Day 2021, the Central Virginia Advance Directives Collaborative is excited to partner with Honoring Choices Virginia to offer two FREE public Zoom workshops on advance directives! Join us, April 20th (5:30 pm – 7 pm) or April 22nd (10:30 am – 12 pm) for My Care, My Choice: Tools to Help You Have a Say in Your Care if You Can’t Speak for Yourself. All Virginians are encouraged to join to learn more about how to ensure you have a say in your care, even if you can’t speak for yourself. The workshop will focus on talking about making a plan, creating an advance directive, and much more. For more information and to register visit https://honoringchoices-va.org/learn/events/